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Break your soul from people-pleasing
You are depressed – no one cares.
You are indecisive – no one cares.
You are stuck – no one cares.
You want to get up in the morning and do all the things – no one cares.
You want to convince and make understand – no one listens.
You are in vicious cycle – no one cares.
From your family to your friends to your loved ones.
Everyone has own expectations.
1: Parents
They want to fix their all problems while considering this that you will own those problems.
What a capitalist trade-off of million years of human relations.
They support you in your childhood, adulthood too. In return you have to fulfil their expectations in their weak time. Cycle of the equal expectations. Equal marketisation of hopes. Trade off.
Exception few!
2: Friends
One of the most hollow concept of the 21st Century. Friendship is a market venture. If you do what they do with you then it is a good connection. If you are okay with their expectations they will be okay. Once you show non-conformism check this entire friendship will be into troubles and hot waters. Equal trade off.
