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Sometimes, we make ourselves the dumbest people in our lives in the name of love. It is our choice to live in toxic love. We make ourselves tough enough to decide, although we know that our mutual coexistence is problematic. We keep doing it out of fear of loss or because we are afraid of bearing trauma. The gallows of toxicity remove your sanity.
Actually it’s fear of losing someone, the fear of losing attachment, the fear to be alone, the fear of distrust.. It could be anything but it’s not love.
The next idea is about true love.
True love is totally a different idea. It’s something beyond judgements, misunderstandings, harshness, anger, and scepticism. True love is always gentle, caring, and confident. It gives you a steering force of confidence, compassion, and competence.
TRUE LOVE gives you wings to fly, to fly without boundaries, to fly with open heart, to fly by knowing sky is not the limit.
If you find anyone with a loving, attention-giving, mutually affirmative, supportive, and assured bond, it will give you a different glow. That is true love, where you don’t groan. You are just making upward mobility in the monologue of life, pleasure, and affection.
Choose wisely and stay happy!
